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Max: An article about David DeAngelo

nospam@example.com (Max) — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 01:33:29 -0700

I'll agree with you, honestly he is a business man, Eban Pagan originally was one of those get rich quick guys, and all these books he write preach the same thing over and over. He's running with your money people stop thinking he's great. The women who follow him are the same idiot girls who just found out they have 10 fingers, real women don't fall for this shit at all. Be yourself, and if it doesn't get you every woman you see, don't assume something is wrong, just say that she wasn't right for me and move on. All the guys who defend the seduction community are just really really desperate, and David De Angelo preys on these guys. This comes from a guy who has a girlfriend with him for a year, and I never even picked up or read any books on dating, I've been myself with a balance of the somewhat 'Wuss' type behavior, and some of the 'Bad Boy' type behavior, and that is me. David De Angelo will preach to not be fake, but by following him, you are being fake if that is not who you are.

lew chang: An article about David DeAngelo

nospam@example.com (lew chang) — Sat, 01 May 2010 21:01:43 -0700

deangelo is nothing but a plagerizer who's ripped off the bulk of his material from others and is in it for greed and profit alone, and laughing all the way to the bank.

Rainita: Love as a mental illness

nospam@example.com (Rainita) — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 21:17:12 -0800

Love is definitely a mental illness. And it's pretty wonderful too.

I especially like that Steve highlights: "Dr. Tallis is careful to separate sex from love. And while he does admit that love might be a "good mental illness to have," he states that society "vastly underestimates" the effect of love and romance on world affairs. According to him, a large percentage of decisions made by our leaders may be made under the effect of this unusual mental state."

I may never look at world politics the same. ha!

nightowl: "I was checking to see if the fireplace went out!"

nospam@example.com (nightowl) — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 21:23:33 -0700

She was playing the come and talk to me game. You took way to long to play it... game over after 2 minutes.

Its not her fault its the way she has been taught to attract a man, flutter her eyes at him till he approaches. (for all this modern feminist world we are trapped in prehistoric mating rituals)

if you haven't already you should check out love-shy.com in particular the Dr Gilmartins Shyness and love book (its life changing and free)

For deep biological, tribal and social reasons men are supposed to approach women.

Hardwired into every man is approach anxiety, most men get over it and dont even think about it. In caveman times the wrong approach could = death (tribal leader not happy with you hitting on his missus) or no sex ever (tribe rejection through gossip).

You had various options...

a) stare at her like a loser psycho with no confidence till she gets scared (this is the one i do to much)

b) go up to her within 2 minutes of her playing the stupid game and say something "mind if i sit here"

c) play the bad boy and make a rude gesture followed by "PLEASE STOP STARING AT ME" followed by embarassing her or by chatting her up.

d) remain seated smile at her then beckon her over to sit with you (this is my prefered option as it gives you the power to reject her or not)

e) just ignore her completely, this a cruel anti game.

f) smile gently and be nice to her but stay seated and dont approach (i actually made a girl cry doing this) cos i was so wrapped up with not approaching women.

Nick B: Low self esteem

nospam@example.com (Nick B) — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 19:34:56 -0700

This-'low self steem' thing is bull. Everyone has 'low self esteem' which basically we all have insecurities and we try to cover them up to protect ourselves. SInce we are hiding our flaws it appears that everyone else is okay while we are a fuck up. This is because we know intimately the depths of our own problems but can only see the fake outer shell of others.

I think this is where self love comes in, we must accept our selves as the 'flawed' person we are and treat our selves well.

I like this site.

Roxstar: Even corporations play games - just look at Comcast

nospam@example.com (Roxstar) — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 17:06:05 -0700

"How am I supposed to adhere to a policy when I don't know what it is?"

Lmao XD

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Dylan : Why this blog?

nospam@example.com (Dylan ) — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 12:55:10 -0800

Check out Axl Rose's new song. All about integrity in love over "love sweeping you off your feet"

Deangelo would say he played the game wrong ... you would say the game is all boococka.

I am questioning this still ... the value of playing the mating game verse dealing solely with the approach of integrity. You attract more women and social opportunities when you use the right language, but it can be said if you get too into it that like is like a Hollywood movie all the time, meaning a fantasy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8shnOcVmZg

John: Love as a mental illness

nospam@example.com (John) — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 12:46:35 -0800

Ancient wisdom said that if a man is seduced by a woman or has to seduce her with anything less than the fullness of his manhood, he internally BECOMES a woman. These studies show the same thing. When men and women fall in love, they just swap hormones and become addicted to each other.

The Wisdom of the Ages is hold your ground and let love happen through the deep integrity of your heart. Seduction is questionable, it is something to do to improve your self-image perhaps, but it will not give you salvation of your heart and soul.

Dylan: An article about David DeAngelo

nospam@example.com (Dylan) — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 12:36:45 -0800

Sometimes this may be the case - they could prefer a more nice guy, but it takes longer to get into bed with them, because they are programmed to respond sexually to the game. It's called growing up and getting attracted to the right kind of people and also possibly not being as obsessed with sexual stimulation. If for the sake of argument some "nice guys" offer a spiritual value that is absent in the game of seduction, that value expresses itself differently when it comes to sexuality. It goes slower.

Recently I dated a few times with a real gorgeous lady, a beautiful model, a 10, and of course I really wanted to sleep with her, but I was off my game on that account. Yet something special seemed to have happened, which was we clicked on the heart level almost without me even realizing it cause I was so busy trying to score.

She kissed me at one point and said how much the time she spent with me meant to her. I could FEEL that straight from the heart and it really surprised me. It was gorgeous. I never slept with her, though she put on like she might like to have a relationship, when I didn't go for it she immediately slept with some PUA type guys. I got mad with jealousy, feeling both like I lost a possible love and that I was a chump for not getting her in bed.

I reflect on it and though I missed my opportunity to sleep with her, that kiss and emotion had a very high value, because it did come from the heart. It felt from a different place altogether than lust. So, that is perhaps what this gentleman running this site is trying to convey when he says PUA's miss out on some of the real treasure in life.

If you are all game, you can miss out on the poetry in your soul. (Then again, if I hadn't been practicing game, I don't know if I'd have had to confidence to get the date in the first place!) It's just that the gratitude and feeling of that kiss, came from another place...it was from the soul.

chris: Love as a mental illness

nospam@example.com (chris) — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 15:07:31 -0800

This is the worst article ever written.

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larryben: Games limited just to dating?

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Paul Hancox | InternetInfluenceMagic.com: Social Proof

nospam@example.com (Paul Hancox | InternetInfluenceMagic.com) — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 11:34:31 -0700

Just got to this article from a search under "social proof" as I'm doing more research for my blog.

I love your example of social proof in action. It's crazy, but it works! You might be interested in this article on my blog about research done into when women find a face more attractive.

By the way, don't forget that social proof applies to blogs, too

Best,

Paul Hancox | Internet Influence Magic